Friday, April 24, 2009
Women's Study
So far I have one women’s bible study with 12 women from Specialists to LTC’s who come together and are studying 40 Days of Purpose. I have 30 more signed up to be a part of my Run through the Bible. I have a Commander who told me that this is one of his goals for this deployment: to leave understanding the Bible and how it is put together! Another person told me the similar message and said, “I don’t understand anything about the Bible! I can’t wait to see how it works!” There are people attending this study who are not Christians but they want to know how it works!
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Fireproof
Before I left for Kosovo, Sherry and I went to see the movie Fireproof. We left thinking it was a good movie but some of the stuff in it seemed idealistic. Yet, we both thought that what is often missing is idealism and a picture of how things should work and can work if we were practicing the principles God intended. I did not think much more about it much for awhile.
Then about two months ago, an officer came up to me and said he needs pre-marital counseling. Moreover, that they were doing fine but now they have some problems. We started meeting once a week. Then we discussed doing the 40 days mentioned in the Fire Proof movie. He purchased the journey and the movie for him and his fiancée. He asked me to meet with her. We met over the email and discussed what they are going through. Both are reading the book, watched the movie and today he and she said that the past is behind them and they are moving onto the future together and that wedding bells are back in view.
Then about two months ago, an officer came up to me and said he needs pre-marital counseling. Moreover, that they were doing fine but now they have some problems. We started meeting once a week. Then we discussed doing the 40 days mentioned in the Fire Proof movie. He purchased the journey and the movie for him and his fiancée. He asked me to meet with her. We met over the email and discussed what they are going through. Both are reading the book, watched the movie and today he and she said that the past is behind them and they are moving onto the future together and that wedding bells are back in view.
Easter Update
Pastor Steve From Kosovo:
Week of April 12, 2009
Easter was interesting and the best is yet to be seen. As I said at the Easter Sunday service I used the idea that people will often go to church if they are asked. I decided to put what Pastor Phil preached into practice this past week and asked someone who clearly said that “They gave up on God because they believe God has given up on him”. At our worship service we invited every person to ask God for a long shot in their life and do something that defies the odds. I could not believe it when I saw this person come up to the cross and ask God for a long shot. It was like a parade of people. Women had to be given tissues. One person came up to me and said that he is a pastor and that was the most powerful symbol of what God can do and wants to do. He asked me if I came up with the idea. I said, “No! My staff back home!” Praise God for my church and my staff!”
Week of April 12, 2009
Easter was interesting and the best is yet to be seen. As I said at the Easter Sunday service I used the idea that people will often go to church if they are asked. I decided to put what Pastor Phil preached into practice this past week and asked someone who clearly said that “They gave up on God because they believe God has given up on him”. At our worship service we invited every person to ask God for a long shot in their life and do something that defies the odds. I could not believe it when I saw this person come up to the cross and ask God for a long shot. It was like a parade of people. Women had to be given tissues. One person came up to me and said that he is a pastor and that was the most powerful symbol of what God can do and wants to do. He asked me if I came up with the idea. I said, “No! My staff back home!” Praise God for my church and my staff!”
Monday, March 23, 2009
Kosovo plans for Easter
This past Sunday 3.22.09 I announced that I wanted to have a meeting right after church for those who want to volunteer to help with Easter. So picture this, 100 in church and 1/2 of them remain. It almost looked like nobody left. I couldn't believe it.
Here is what I am doing Easter Sunday:
- Welcome
- (interruption of three women in skit who went to the tomb and saw it was empty. they will come in and tell the story based on Mark 16)
- After they leave we sing and greet
- More singing
- Message
At the end of the message I have cross built and on stage (this is not new to you), but we have placed pieces of paper in bulletin for people to list things (from their past, present and future) to be nailed on the cross; i.e., past sins and need for healing and forgiveness; present troubles and future worries, (like my marriage when I get home, or no job or can't pay for the house, etc. or relationship with my kids, whatever.) Just joking on these, Sherry!
While they are thinking on these things, I have a 2 min 22 second video called the “Simple Complexity of Easter”. It is a man who takes all his hate and fears and problems and nails them to the cross. Then he buries them in the ground and then when these things are unburied, they are no longer hate or fears or problems; the resurrection of Christ transformed his fears into faith and hate into love and problems into hope. It is amazing.
My message is called "I believe". It is about Easter power. It is about asking Christ to do a long shot in your life with the same power that raised him from the dead, Romans 8:11.
Then after everyone has taken their cards to the front and have nailed them to the cross, before they go back to their seats they will pick up a candle. The candle will be lit similar to what we do on Christmas Eve. It is a sign of bringing light into our life through the power of Easter Resurrection.
Then we end the service with “Because He Lives” or something that keeps in the ‘I believe’ theme.
That is it! Okay, gotta run; talk to you soon.
Pastor Steve
Here is what I am doing Easter Sunday:
- Welcome
- (interruption of three women in skit who went to the tomb and saw it was empty. they will come in and tell the story based on Mark 16)
- After they leave we sing and greet
- More singing
- Message
At the end of the message I have cross built and on stage (this is not new to you), but we have placed pieces of paper in bulletin for people to list things (from their past, present and future) to be nailed on the cross; i.e., past sins and need for healing and forgiveness; present troubles and future worries, (like my marriage when I get home, or no job or can't pay for the house, etc. or relationship with my kids, whatever.) Just joking on these, Sherry!
While they are thinking on these things, I have a 2 min 22 second video called the “Simple Complexity of Easter”. It is a man who takes all his hate and fears and problems and nails them to the cross. Then he buries them in the ground and then when these things are unburied, they are no longer hate or fears or problems; the resurrection of Christ transformed his fears into faith and hate into love and problems into hope. It is amazing.
My message is called "I believe". It is about Easter power. It is about asking Christ to do a long shot in your life with the same power that raised him from the dead, Romans 8:11.
Then after everyone has taken their cards to the front and have nailed them to the cross, before they go back to their seats they will pick up a candle. The candle will be lit similar to what we do on Christmas Eve. It is a sign of bringing light into our life through the power of Easter Resurrection.
Then we end the service with “Because He Lives” or something that keeps in the ‘I believe’ theme.
That is it! Okay, gotta run; talk to you soon.
Pastor Steve
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Mohammed’s Birthday Celebration: I received a call from an Imam inviting my Commanding General and I to attend Mohammed’s birthday celebration. Then before he gets off the phone, the Imam adds, “…I have been receiving death threats…and he wants to talk to me about it.”
In our change of command ceremony another Imam came up to me and applauded me for my prayer during the ceremony. He said that it is unusual that the military invites a religious leader to pray for the soldiers and families. This same imam has written three books and is a professor at a University here in Kosovo. We shared coffee and then he said without America he and his family would not be experiencing the new life that they now live. Sometimes we don’t know of the good things that impact people across the world. Before America stepped in there was ethnic cleansing. Now his family can live in peace.
The independence of Kosovo is a problem for the Serbian Orthodox Church. Here is what happened. The Serbians had to give up land to Kosovars. The Kosovars are 80% Albanian Muslims. The Serbian Orthodox Church is led by the archbishop. In order for me to visit or talk with the Serbian Orthodox Priests I had to go to the Archbishop and receive his blessing. You walk in and he looks you up and down and then majestically you sit down and begin to talk. I have to admit, I did not know what to say. When in doubt, keep mouth shut. So I spoke very little. The custom in Kosovo is that every meeting you attend must first start out with coffee. I hate coffee. I had to drink a sip and it was terrible. I don’t know how people acquire a taste for it. So I sat, had coffee and exchanged small talk. After 30 minutes of small talk, the archbishop did something that he never has done and that was to raise a toast to me and a good year together. Then he proceeded to give me a gift. I was impressed by his hospitality. I then said, “Father, I am not normally short for words. But today I was limited. It is my hope that in another time I can come and spend time in a conversation with you. He invited me back and I left with his blessing.
I heard about this Serbian Orthodox Priest who lived in a monastery in the mountains. I talked briefly about him a few Sundays back. He was big man with a sense of power and strength behind his voice. He worked with his hands and had an understanding of the Scriptures that was quite impressive. He pulled out his Bible and began to speak God’s truth. Three hours later I heard messages from Genesis to Revelation. He covered a snap shot of every basic Christian doctrine. I was impressed. I felt that he had actually spent time alone with God. He inspired me to spend time with God. He invited me to come back to spend time with God. I am planning to take a group of soldiers to this monastery and have a spiritual retreat.
2008 was the Army’s worst year – in January we lost more soldiers to suicide than we did on the battle field. The Army did a Suicide Prevention Stand-down. A stand down means everything must stop and every soldier must be given a brief and resources to make sure that they know what to do if they are depressed or if their buddy is depressed. After I briefed over 1200 soldiers people started setting up appointments. Their issues were not about suicide but about stress. People who had issues from last year that were unresolved and people who needed to make decisions but could not make it on their own without being heard. People who are leaders and people you would not expect to have problems. Many of these people have none or little faith. It is an opportunity to invite them to a faith experience.
Last week I went to this city called Okhrid, Macedonia. It was a really nice town. Thirty minutes further was a monastery. We went to the monastery and then returned to the city. In this city was a university, a fortress and a church on a mountain. At the bottom of the mountain was another church. We went to the church and discovered that a ninth century monk’s hand bones were still in the church that he built and was the pastor. This same man built the first university in Europe. On opening day 3500 students showed up to attend his university. Amazing. I then went down the mountain and was ready to walk back to the car when a man down by the church on the lake was waving at me to come back. I never saw him before and thought there must be a problem. I went back and in his broken Macadonian language asked me if I would like him to take our group across the lake to where our car is located. I said sure. As the sun was going down I took control of the boat so that he could smoke and the sun behind me, the breeze, the beauty of the lake…and I thought to myself I should not share this with ECW they will think I am having fun….I was having fun in a time when I needed it most
In our change of command ceremony another Imam came up to me and applauded me for my prayer during the ceremony. He said that it is unusual that the military invites a religious leader to pray for the soldiers and families. This same imam has written three books and is a professor at a University here in Kosovo. We shared coffee and then he said without America he and his family would not be experiencing the new life that they now live. Sometimes we don’t know of the good things that impact people across the world. Before America stepped in there was ethnic cleansing. Now his family can live in peace.
The independence of Kosovo is a problem for the Serbian Orthodox Church. Here is what happened. The Serbians had to give up land to Kosovars. The Kosovars are 80% Albanian Muslims. The Serbian Orthodox Church is led by the archbishop. In order for me to visit or talk with the Serbian Orthodox Priests I had to go to the Archbishop and receive his blessing. You walk in and he looks you up and down and then majestically you sit down and begin to talk. I have to admit, I did not know what to say. When in doubt, keep mouth shut. So I spoke very little. The custom in Kosovo is that every meeting you attend must first start out with coffee. I hate coffee. I had to drink a sip and it was terrible. I don’t know how people acquire a taste for it. So I sat, had coffee and exchanged small talk. After 30 minutes of small talk, the archbishop did something that he never has done and that was to raise a toast to me and a good year together. Then he proceeded to give me a gift. I was impressed by his hospitality. I then said, “Father, I am not normally short for words. But today I was limited. It is my hope that in another time I can come and spend time in a conversation with you. He invited me back and I left with his blessing.
I heard about this Serbian Orthodox Priest who lived in a monastery in the mountains. I talked briefly about him a few Sundays back. He was big man with a sense of power and strength behind his voice. He worked with his hands and had an understanding of the Scriptures that was quite impressive. He pulled out his Bible and began to speak God’s truth. Three hours later I heard messages from Genesis to Revelation. He covered a snap shot of every basic Christian doctrine. I was impressed. I felt that he had actually spent time alone with God. He inspired me to spend time with God. He invited me to come back to spend time with God. I am planning to take a group of soldiers to this monastery and have a spiritual retreat.
2008 was the Army’s worst year – in January we lost more soldiers to suicide than we did on the battle field. The Army did a Suicide Prevention Stand-down. A stand down means everything must stop and every soldier must be given a brief and resources to make sure that they know what to do if they are depressed or if their buddy is depressed. After I briefed over 1200 soldiers people started setting up appointments. Their issues were not about suicide but about stress. People who had issues from last year that were unresolved and people who needed to make decisions but could not make it on their own without being heard. People who are leaders and people you would not expect to have problems. Many of these people have none or little faith. It is an opportunity to invite them to a faith experience.
Last week I went to this city called Okhrid, Macedonia. It was a really nice town. Thirty minutes further was a monastery. We went to the monastery and then returned to the city. In this city was a university, a fortress and a church on a mountain. At the bottom of the mountain was another church. We went to the church and discovered that a ninth century monk’s hand bones were still in the church that he built and was the pastor. This same man built the first university in Europe. On opening day 3500 students showed up to attend his university. Amazing. I then went down the mountain and was ready to walk back to the car when a man down by the church on the lake was waving at me to come back. I never saw him before and thought there must be a problem. I went back and in his broken Macadonian language asked me if I would like him to take our group across the lake to where our car is located. I said sure. As the sun was going down I took control of the boat so that he could smoke and the sun behind me, the breeze, the beauty of the lake…and I thought to myself I should not share this with ECW they will think I am having fun….I was having fun in a time when I needed it most
Friday, March 6, 2009
Practicing with People who are Rough and Annoying
In Chaplain’s training we learn procedures and methods for doing our job. What the training does not provide are personalities of people who we must work with. In the first months I had a difficult time breaking into the circle of leadership. They were good people but that they did not know me. The interesting thing is that the person I aimed to stay away from the most became one of my greatest supporter. They are NOT religious and let it be known. But when he treats me with great respect and is the one who provides me with whatever I need to help soldiers.
I must tell you there is a person who really annoys me. Know anyone like that? The problem is that they annoy me so much that I have to work at not becoming the person Christ is not pleased with. The person is a nice person, means well but annoying. This person will never change. There is not a speech that will change their disposition. So the only thing I can do is ask Christ to help me know how to respond the right way. Moreover, I must become the one who needs to change. This comes easy for some…not me. I would rather go the easy route, speak my mind, shoot the verbal bullets and move on.
The Golden Rule is tough (Treat others the way you want them to treat you). But then the Scriptures take it a step further and teaches us to treat others (even the annoying ones) the way we would treat Christ. Just when I justify that my rude responses were necessary, the Holy Spirit reminds me that I need to treat him like Christ. “As you have done to the least of these you have done it unto me” Matthew 25:40. So, I invite the annoying person to dine with me. Crazy, right? What I found was that when I provided that time one on one they became less annoying. They just wanted to be told they were doing good and that they were appreciated. They wanted my attention. Like I said, they will never stop being annoying, but I found that the changes did not need to come from them. They needed to come from me. My journey is helping me deal with all kinds of people; the rough around the edges types and the annoying types.
Thursday, March 5, 2009
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Thursday, February 26, 2009
Rock drills, Rehearsals, Cheat Sheets & the worst day in Kosovo
So much training has taken place to prepare for the worse day in Kosovo. Nearly 2 months in Indiana and one month in Germany.
In preparation for the worse day we were given scenarios that helped us use our training without having time to think about it. We rehearsed what we would do before we actually had to do it. Prior to the rehearsals we preformed “rock drills”. A rock drill shows where everyone is located and where they must go and what they must do step by step. There is a playbook with 50 plays to rehearse of things that can likely happen. For example, one play is a MASCAL; many people injured and not enough resources or personnel to respond. We created what I call “cheat sheets”. When you get into a situation you don’t have time to read the manual so you have a check list of each significant step that needs to happen.
The Bible is big. When problems come our way we don’t have time to read through the manual of life. We need to know what steps to take without having to think about it. We prepare ourselves with weekly rock drills. Every week when we attend a worship service and LIFE group we are preparing ourselves to respond to what life gives to us with God’s answers. We rehearse it by digging deeper and learning the best response. Although a proven method, many do not like rock drills. They just want to get to Kosovo and start the mission with a false sense of preparation. Many think because they have been in the Army a long time or in the church for a long time that they know what to do. But the skills not used have a diminishing effect. The more they are not used or practiced the less likely they are effective. You hope that there is never a worse day in Kosovo or El Cajon and that by practicing the right steps you prevent it.
In preparation for the worse day we were given scenarios that helped us use our training without having time to think about it. We rehearsed what we would do before we actually had to do it. Prior to the rehearsals we preformed “rock drills”. A rock drill shows where everyone is located and where they must go and what they must do step by step. There is a playbook with 50 plays to rehearse of things that can likely happen. For example, one play is a MASCAL; many people injured and not enough resources or personnel to respond. We created what I call “cheat sheets”. When you get into a situation you don’t have time to read the manual so you have a check list of each significant step that needs to happen.
The Bible is big. When problems come our way we don’t have time to read through the manual of life. We need to know what steps to take without having to think about it. We prepare ourselves with weekly rock drills. Every week when we attend a worship service and LIFE group we are preparing ourselves to respond to what life gives to us with God’s answers. We rehearse it by digging deeper and learning the best response. Although a proven method, many do not like rock drills. They just want to get to Kosovo and start the mission with a false sense of preparation. Many think because they have been in the Army a long time or in the church for a long time that they know what to do. But the skills not used have a diminishing effect. The more they are not used or practiced the less likely they are effective. You hope that there is never a worse day in Kosovo or El Cajon and that by practicing the right steps you prevent it.
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